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2.28.2008

Alfredo Cipolato was a Missoula institution

WESTERN MONTANA LIVES - Alfredo Cipolato was a Missoula institution
By ROB CHANEY of the Missoulian
Alfredo Cipolato

Growing up in Missoula, I was convinced that Fettuccini Alfredo was named for the man who owned the Broadway Market.

My mother had sent me down to get a cup of grated Parmesan cheese for dinner. Alfredo Cipolato's shop had creaky floors and strange things hanging from the ceiling. He was standing behind a white deli cooler, singing in a language I didn't understand. He asked what I wanted.

I said my mother needed a pound of grated cheese for dinner. Alfredo looked at me.
"You having a party tonight?" he asked in his rolling Italian accent.

"No, just us, I think."

"You sure she want a pound of Parmesan?"

I was sure a pound and a cup were the same. Alfredo cut a wedge from a huge wheel of cheese and flipped on a homemade-looking gizmo that showered grated Parmesan into a paper sack. It ran a long time.

Alfredo handed me the sack, and I handed him a dollar. Even back then, Parmesan cost a lot more than a dollar a pound.

"You sure she said a pound?"

I was sure. And Alfredo Cipolato was not about to let a small boy's pride or dinner be sacrificed to a misunderstanding of weights and measures. He rang up my dollar and wished me a fine meal.

When Alfredo closed the Broadway Market in 2004, he was 93. I visited with him on his last business day, just before New Year's Eve, and we joked about the cheese grater. He invited me to stop by and borrow a cup of Parmesan any time.

After his funeral last Tuesday, tales of generosity were common currency in the St. Francis Roman Catholic Church parish hall. One couple recalled looking for ingredients for their child's baptism party and getting a bottle of Veuve Clicquot Champagne in their grocery bag. Music teacher Mike Rosbarsky once needed a few slices of prosciutto and walked out with the heel of the expensive ham.

A photo of the two men shows Rosbarsky apparently lunging across a stage while Alfredo looks ready to burst with joy. Mike said he was trying to hold a microphone as Alfredo gave his last public performance of "O Sole Mio."

Missoulian editor Sherry Devlin reported the scene:

"Our favorite community event of the past week? No contest. Alfredo Cipolato's unexpected solo, leaning on his cane at the front of the stage, after being introduced Sunday night as the only member of Missoula's Mendelssohn Club to have been with the men's choir all of its 60 years. We couldn't hear all that 93-year-old Cipolato said, and couldn't understand a word of the song he sang in Italian. But there was no mistaking the message of the roaring standing ovation that followed. And the tears many in the packed University Theatre wiped from their eyes."

Alfredo's own stories ran more to smiles than tears. When he was a young man learning the hotel trade in Venice, he received a swastika lapel pin from no less than Gestapo leader Hermann Goering. The next day, when he heard that Germany had annexed Austria, Alfredo threw the pin into a canal.

His training moved to New York City when he came in 1940 with the staff of the World's Fair Italian Pavilion.

"Mrs. Roosevelt and the wife of Fiorello La Guardia, they always came for tea," he recalled. "And they never tipped!"

A few months later, World War II was on. Alfredo found himself rounded up with other Italian citizens as a suspected enemy of the state. The authorities decided to intern him at Fort Missoula. For three years, he worked in area sugar beet fields with other Italian internees, earning $1 a ton.

He met Ann D'Orazi while singing in the St. Francis choir. Missoulian columnist Evelyn King had the following account:

"When the young couple decided to marry, there were a few obstacles, since the war was still in progress and Alfredo was considered an 'alien.' They were finally given permission by U.S. Attorney General Biddell. They were also told not to leave the vicinity of Missoula by 'plane, train or car' for a honeymoon trip.

"Father White of St. Francis solved the problem by giving them bus tickets to Polson where they stayed at the Salish House."

King added that shortly after the birth of Ann and Alfredo's first child, he received deportation orders to return to Italy. The couple appealed to Sen. Mike Mansfield, who got the order blocked. Mansfield also advised Alfredo to promptly apply for citizenship, which he did.

For the next half-century, Alfredo lived a life well-larded with music, food and wonder. He was a founding member of the Missoula Mendelssohn Club and sang with them for 63 years. He and Ann regularly flew to Venice to see friends and family, and even to renew their wedding vows. One trip took place just weeks after the Sept. 11 terrorist attacks: "If you're going to live in fear, you might as well be dead," he said afterward.

Over the cash register in the Broadway Market, Alfredo kept a letter in a sandwich baggie. It was addressed "To the gentleman former Italian line employee who runs a shop selling Italian goods in Missoula; Missoula, Montana; United States of America." It came from Maria Vittoria Romasso, an Italian searching for history of her father, Thomaso Romasso. She'd seen an Italian documentary about interment camps that featured Alfredo, and believed Thomaso might have been a comrade who died at Fort Missoula.

Alfredo was always amused that the letter found him without a ZIP code, address or even a name, from the same Post Office that once spent three days trying to deliver a 30-pound panettone Christmas bread to a Cipolato on West Broadway instead of East Broadway.

The Cipolatos' Broadway Market was a three-dimensional encyclopedia of food. Alfredo loved discussing the difference between shrimp cooked with heads on or heads off, the best ways to serve snails, and the relative qualities of Canadian and Italian prosciutto. He could contrast the food pairings of vintage Champagnes, allowing that he and Ann personally preferred a $12 bottle of Zardetto Prosecco with their scrambled eggs on Sunday mornings.

Worden's Market owner Tim France said he was always amazed at the amount of Parmesan cheese Alfredo ran through that grinder, and still regrets not trying to buy it from him when Alfredo retired.

"I'd just like to keep the tradition going," France said. "It was part of his style."

10.31.2007

The worst Halloween

Happy Halloween!

Today has always been one of my favorite holidays. What kid does not like Halloween? I've never met one who didn't, not sure I'd want to. I recently gave my Mom a hard time about the year she completely ruined my Halloween. I think I must have been in 3rd or 4th grade..still very much into the whole trick-or-treating thing, but old enough that we didn't have to be accompanied by a parent. I don't think they ever understood how much mileage we got each Halloween even though we brought home pillowcases bursting with candy. The best part though, was running around at night (even a school night!) with no parents. A kid's dream!

So this particular year, my Mom helped transform me into the bride of Frankenstein, taken from a cool halloween makeup book. Cool costume, check. Biggest plastic pumpkin that could easily hold half my weight in candy, check. Amped friends ready to hit it hard, check. Let the fun begin!

Then, my Mom told me there would be a little detour. It seems that a neighbor girl's Mom had convinced her to make me go to the haunted house at the fairgrounds with the girl. I loved haunted houses, but you always-ALWAYS-do them in the days leading up to October 31, never the night of! It didn't help that this girl wasn't my friend, the only reason I knew her was because she followed my brother around school and the park telling everyone she was going to marry him. That and she had a strange habit of eating butter and chapstick like it was candy.

I don't know why I was chosen to go with her or how my brother, who was in her grade, got to skip it and go trick-or-treat with his friends. But that is what happened and I was devastated. My Mom promised I could go trick-or-treat afterwards and hopefully find my friends. With that, I'm dropped off at the haunted house. We wait in line and walk through it-it's a pretty good haunted house-and as we exit, she starts to panic. Somehow, she lost her witch hat while we were in the house. Her hat, by the way, was poorly made with black construction paper. The green paper band had been waving in the air because the tape wasn't sticking very well, and basically the thing was on the verge of falling apart before we set foot in there.

She bangs on the exit door on the verge of tears and begs the attendent to let her back in to find it. The guy says "no" and pushes us out of the way to keep the flow of people moving. She starts to cry. I feel bad for her, but impatient because it is time to go trick-or-treating and the hat was paper!

After a few more tears, I finally convince her that we needed to go back to the front because our ride is waiting for us. Still crying about the hat, she follows me to the front where we wait for one of our mothers to pick us up. And wait. Apparently, they got their wires crossed and each assumed the other had pickup duty and we sat there for a very, very long time. By this time, older kids are showing up, many of them drunk and amused by the crying blonde girl (who no longer resembled a witch) with the thick glasses and the angry little bride of Frankenstein sitting on the curb.

A couple of guys approached us and one ripped my big pumpkin out of my hands. Quickly realizing there was no candy in it for him to steal, he threw it at my head as hard as he could. His friends (and several people in the line that was snaking by us) laughed. The witch continued crying. I fumed.

By the time my Mom came to get us, I wanted blood. Her blood. It was so late, my brother was already home admiring his take. I was allowed to trick-or-treat at the one house on the block besides ours that still had their porch light on. The candy at our house had been wiped out, so the next day, my Mom gave the leftovers from a friend's house which was about 15 mini Three Musketeers. Brutal! I was so upset. It was truly the worst Halloween ever!

I sure had fun giving my Mom a hard time about it a few weeks ago. We were howling. She had also dressed up as the bride of Frankenstein, and the image of us in her car on the way home, me a smaller version of her with my arms folded across my chest overcome with pure rage directed at her, interrupted by the girl still crying about her paper hat....

9.12.2007

Bear at Wild Horse Dock



This Mama bear was watching my brother and I while keeping an eye on her cubs who weren't far from her. She spent most of the time up the tree (and we watched her actually come down the tree head first!) while the cubs scampered at the base of the tree. We were trying to load up our boat at the dock next to this tree, but they weren't going anywhere. With ice melting, we decided we had to make a move. She watched us from a tree but didn't seem to care about us at all. Not us, not my brother's little dog, or the bag of fried chicken he had in his hand.

Even though bears are frequently sighted around my Mom's home and other areas, I never get bored with them. They are extraordinary animals.

8.26.2007

More bugers



Apparently "bugers" are a popular food item in the northwest. Earlier in this blog, I described an awning that advertised them along with fries and shakes. Here is another northwest establishment that not only serves them, but gives them away!

9.10.2006

9.11.2001

On the eve of the 5th anniversary of 9-11, I'm watching the accidental documentary by the French brothers filming a rookie fireman. It is as hard to watch as it was the first time it aired, and there are of course no words to describe it, except that it puts you right there.

I remember how surreal it seemed that morning, when I switched my radio for some reason to NPR as I got ready for work. Realizing what was going on while trying to squeeze in my routine. Realizing, but not comprehending. It hit me first when the airport sign on I-5 indicating something. I don't remember what specifically it said, that the airport was locked down? Something that made it real. Then my school emergency communications pager went off, as the naval/army bases went under lockdown, including the schools on the bases. Here in Seattle, that is what initially made it real.

I tried to read online what was happening, but didn't see the tv footage of the planes hitting and the towers coming down until I went to a bar near my house, since I didn't have cable. It is still hard to watch.

It is the eve of the fifth anniversary of 9-11, and I can't help but wonder what tomorrow will bring. Hopefully it will only be a sad, quiet milestone. In case it is not, I will check the batteries in my work phone and my pager, and hope that I won't need them tomorrow.

8.19.2006

Rasta and the Amazon

I don't know if the sunny weather makes people more social around here or I'm just unaware of how often I'm connected to my iPod, but I seem to have been part of an increasing number of random coversations in the last few days. Case in point:

Midday, Friday-I'm walking up Broadway. This somewhat rasta-looking guy sweeping the sidewalk in front of a shop greets me. As I reply "fine, thanks-how are you?" –he is already asking me another question. His accent is so thick, I ask him to repeat it.

"You are taller than me, aren't you?"

He walks towards me as I'm passing him like he's sizing me up. If it was night, I would be sort of frightened.

"Well, I do have heels on," I say. I'm sort of confused...so what?

He interrupts me again with another question I don't understand. "Pardon me?" I say.

"How tall are you? How tall are you?!?"

"Five-seven..." I've been continuing down the street this whole time. I hear him yell after me,
"Five-SEVEN!?!? I thought you were six-one. At LEAST six-one!!"

I don't know why this exchange makes me laugh, but it does. Sometimes it is refreshing to not always be plugged in.


Later that afternoon, I was working out at the gym. Ubiquitous iPod blasting in my ears, I was in a zone as I went through my little circuit on the weight machines. I finished a set on triceps and grabbed a spray bottle and towel from the machine next to mine so I could clean my machine and move on. The thing is, I grabbed the spray handle, and as I lifted the bottle out of its holder, I accidentally spritzed–all over the guy sitting at that machine.

I think my voice was amplified-not only from the iPod but also the shock and mortification of spraying a complete stranger-and I started to laugh as I profusely apologized. He gave me a terse half-smile while he stared somewhere past my right thigh-wouldn't even look at me.

Ah well, it was an accident and I did sincerely apologize, even though I was laughing out of embarrassment when I did. What else can I do? Time to work the quads-on the OTHER side of the gym!

Later, a man recited a poem to me and asked for a dollar. I gave him two. It was a long poem about kindness towards others. Sometimes that just seems harder and harder to do.

8.13.2006

A Soldier on Patriotism

"There's nothing un-American, unpatriotic or wimpy about being against the war. There's nothing patriotic about blind conformity," he said. "I've earned my opinion. I spent a year in a combat zone."

Sgt. Zach Bazzi, 3rd battalion, Charlie Company

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